by Susan
Fox
It’s come
down to this.
Many
pro-life and pro-marriage individuals thoughtlessly walk into Starbucks. But a
portion of every cup of coffee you buy at Starbucks goes to fund a corporate
assault on marriage and its fruit – human life.
I faced
this reality in 2012. Though I loved their coffee, I stopped drinking it. I
wrote them a letter: Dear Starbucks, My gold
level card became a green level card, you say? (That
means I hadn’t been using my rechargeable Starbucks card that earns rewards.) While I was once a
happy customer of Starbucks, I am no longer.
I will not stop in any
of your stores for a Frappuccino. I will no longer buy your Via Ready Brew at
Wal-Mart for my son in college. Anything manufactured by you -- I will not
touch. I will not pay for it and I will not consume it in another's home. I
have found out that you have legally challenged the Defense of Marriage Act.
You have committed economic suicide. Where do you think your future customers
are coming from???
At the time I was ignorant of the fact that Starbucks was also
a major donor to Planned Parenthood, the largest abortion provider in the
United States. Not only were they bent on destroying Marriage, the cradle of human
civilization, but also the baby in the cradle – human life itself. Ug, that
coffee doesn’t taste so good anymore.
But once you throw that deadly coffee out the window, where
do you get your daily fix? I wandered
aimlessly through malls, sighed in frustration at coffee kiosks, stared glumly
at the options at Wal-Mart. I tried alternatives at Catholic bookstores, but
the beans were frankly old. I never found a good source of delicious fresh whole
beans. We went for three years with no fragrant coffee in the house! A kindly
priest came to visit, asked for coffee, and he got tea! It was Lent 365 days of
the year.
Then a wonderful pro-life family man offered me a
lifeboat!
His name was John Lillis. He and his family (wife, seven
children and in-laws) started the Lifeboat Coffee Co. in 2013 out of his home
in Omaha, Nebraska.
Every one-pound bag of coffee purchased at Lifeboat goes to
fund pro-life causes and parishes -- whichever one the customer wants! My pound
of coffee from Lifeboat netted about $1.25 for Students for Life of America,
and unbelievably you can get up to two pounds of reasonably-priced fresh coffee with shipping that costs
only $2.99. It arrives in three days. And
it is really good coffee.
This Lent, I am not fasting from coffee. But as always I am
fasting from Starbucks.
So who is the man who started the nation’s first pro-life
coffee company?
John Lillis is a survivor of the abortion holocaust that
began in March 1967 in the state of California. John was born only five months after the abortion law was put into effect, and then he was abandoned in a hospital in San Francisco. Things
started looking up then because pro-life Catholics George and Rita Lillis adopted John.
Being pro-life was “kinda in my genes,” John said in an interview with me. Rita, John’s 81-year-old mother, worked as the director of the
Respect Life Commission in the Archdiocese of San Francisco. She was a
volunteer at Birthright International, a grassroots response to the insecurity faced
by many unwed mothers. “I can’t say (count) the number of women that came through
our house that had a newborn or were about to have a child, so it was just
imbued upon us that was the proper thing to do (support life).”
Then growing up in a Catholic family, there were Rosary
prayer walks through San Francisco – “As a young kid that always left a
permanent mark on my heart,” Lillis said.
While Lillis never
abandoned his pro-life beliefs, he did take a detour out of Catholicism at the
age of 16. “I
decided I no longer needed to participate in the faith even though I was a product
of Catholic schools. We’re talking 1970s, early 80s –- we sang songs about
Jesus and had poetry, colored pictures. I’m not sure what else I might have
learned so I kinda quit for a while.”
The Joyful San Francisco Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone |
Fully 80 percent of
the faculty and staff at the four archdiocesan high schools have rejected his amended
teacher’s handbook, and they have signed a petition to that effect. If Cordileone is successful in his reforms, life stories like those of John Lillis
may become a thing of the past. People may actually receive a Catholic education
at a Catholic school.
Ironically, it was
the Rosary in the context of the staunchly Catholic Franciscan University of
Steubenville that brought John back to the Catholic Church in 1993 at the age
of 26. After having worked for a while, John wanted to go back to college, but
none in the San Francisco area would accept him.
His mother lured him
into applying for Steubenville, and amazingly he was accepted. John went and
took a peek at the campus before he accepted.
“I had not participated in the faith for some time – the only thing
that crossed my mind was ‘Wow look at
all the beautiful Catholic women that are on this campus. It’s going to be a
great place to go!’” As he learned later, grace works through nature.
So he packed up his truck
and drove from San Francisco to Steubenville, Ohio. He planned to live in the
dorm and immerse himself in campus life and prepare for a Master’s Degree in
Counseling. But when he got there, there was no room in the dorm for an older
student, so he was given a “$2 hotel” for three days, so he could look for an
apartment.
A guy from New York named
David shared the hotel with him, and of course, they shared their life stories.
Out of the blue David asked John, “Do you want to pray a Rosary?”
Lillis responded, “Don’t
you do that when somebody dies and you go to the wake?” “No,” David said, “You
pray it all the time,” and then added, “What harm could it do?”
He got to the second
decade of the Rosary. “It wasn’t quite a Pauline Christophany, but I was zapped
by a moment of grace, and I realized everything I'd been doing on my own for the
last 10 years was really displeasing to Our Blessed Lord,” John said. “And I started
to cry like a little baby.”
“That was just a sign to
this guy to say, ‘Okay now you need to go to confession.’”
So John tried, though he
honestly believed alarms would go off when the priest heard his confession. He
had to go back several times, as the lines were so long. Finally, he got in
after waiting 90 minutes.
To his shock, there no
longer was a nice little screen to hide behind. “The confessional opens and
there’s the priest sitting right there,” John recalls. “‘Hey, come in and sit right down!’ I was like, ‘Whoa!’ So after ten plus years away, I had this
wonderful face-to-face confession with a priest who is now gone to the Lord.
But all he said to me was, ‘Welcome home.’”
John found within himself
a passion to learn “what the Church actually teaches (and) why she teaches what
she teaches.” No more songs and coloring books. He wanted the real thing.
So began the life of a
passionate pro-life Catholic who attends Mass almost daily. He became a
Catholic radio journalist – not a counselor, and joined the Board of Directors
for Nebraskans United for Life, the largest pro-life group in the state. He also
became a paid lobbyist for the pro-life cause and helped shape several laws in
the state of Nebraska.
“I worked on creating
alliances between pro-life groups and being able to help find funding for
pro-life groups,” Lillis said, adding, “I think the funding issue has always
been a big battle.”
That’s when the idea for
the Lifeboat Coffee Co. came into being.
“We are still in the
start-up mode so we are not yet in the black, but it takes two to three years
to get a start-up running efficiently,” Lillis said, adding that they hope to
be making a profit by 2016.
Still with the intention
to donate 10 percent of receipts less shipping to pro-life charities, Lifeboat
Coffee is already fulfilling its mission – to provide funding to groups that
will work to save lives. They donated approximately $3,000 to pro-life groups in
their first year of operation, 2014. “We just need to increase traffic
(sales),” Lillis said, and if they do that, pro-life charities will benefit further.
Parishes or Right-to-Life
groups can get in on the charity bonus by putting a passive link for Lifeboat
Coffee on their web pages. Coffee purchased from that link will automatically
earn the 10 percent reward for the charity that sponsored the link.
lifeboatcoffee.com or 1-855-88-4-LIFE (5433) |
Where did the name, Lifeboat Coffee, come from? It grew out of John's life experience. For nothing
happens accidentally. God gifts everything providentially. Like St. Don Bosco,
who shepherded sheep in his youth, and then became a priest who shepherded boys, Lillis was carefully prepared for his role in life: husband, father, pro-life radio journalist and the mission of selling the pro-life message in the great sea of the culture of death. Growing up, he was a member of the Sea Scouts
of America – part of the Boy Scouts, but on the water. Then he worked as an adult in the
U.S. Coast Guard.
“One day when thinking about the name, I
thought we want to help save lives, what about a life boat?” Lillis said, “It’s
just that easy.”
Besides saving the lives of unborn people, he
is also saving the souls of us, who must make a discerning choice about where
to spend our dollars.
Almost every year, Lillis and his family attend
the March for Life in Washington, D.C. So he was there again this year, but the
hotel he was staying in did not permit him to serve coffee to the pro-lifers
staying there. So nobody could taste Lifeboat, although they got free coffee
samples to take home.
“The point is everybody from the director of
the March for Life to almost every pro-lifer that had a booth (drank) Starbucks
Coffee,” Lillis said, “And I said to them, ‘Do you understand what you just
did? You took two steps forward and one step backward.”
I feel great sympathy for the squirming
pro-lifers who had to look the founder of Lifeboat Coffee in the face, while
holding their Starbucks latte. Their
excuses were “there’s no other coffee.” And when he reminded them of McDonald’s,
they said, “If you dig deep enough everybody is bad.”
“It was
a disappointment,” Lillis said, adding, “You don't have to dig with Starbucks.
They are just bad from the get-go.”
But Lillis and those boycotting Starbucks for
their pro-gay and pro-abortion stances are making a difference. Planned
Parenthood – as recently as 2014 – proudly listed its major corporate donors on
its web page, including Starbucks. But that link was removed sometime since
last year, and now they only sport a partial list of corporate donors, and
Starbucks isn’t on it. Apparently bowing to pro-life pressure, Starbucks
decided to hide their involvement with the nation’s largest abortion provider,
Planned Parenthood *
However, on the issue of same sex “marriage,”
Starbucks has simply become more strident. Starbucks was among the 379
companies who just filed a friend-of-the-court brief with the U.S. Supreme Court,
pressing it to overturn a lower court ruling that upheld bans on same-sex
marriage in four states.
“They (Starbucks) are
technically our nemesis. I don’t really think about them per se. Obviously they
are the 800-pound gorilla so it’s hard to beat them," Lillis said. "But someday -- God willing – there will be
Lifeboat coffee shops in cities around the country.”
And that’s the good news. The pro-life,
pro-family Lifeboat chain will grow. John is exploring all types of options for
selling coffee on the street. On one hand, he could begin a chain of stationary
coffee cafés similar to what Starbucks has nationwide. Who knows there may be
some Starbucks cafés coming up for sale soon?
Or he has looked at partnering with Newman Centers and Catholic groups
on campus to put pro-life coffee in the hands of every collegian. One of his most exciting ideas is that of a
mobile café.
With a mobile café, Lifeboat Coffee could be at
every major pro-life, parish and civic event and “just be there rather than
having people trying to find us in one spot,” Lillis said. People could enjoy
fresh homemade coffee to drink, buy Lifeboat’s one-pound bags, and take home its
pro-life honey. “We might get really radical and put a small 5-pound coffee roaster
on the truck, so people can get fresh roasted coffee.”
At one point in his life, Lillis was interested in becoming
a priest in a religious order. But another
young man made a pass during his last year of summer camp, sponsored by the order, and he
never went back.
Perhaps that was for the best because the
alternative suits John to a T. I asked him what was the most defining experience
of his life, and the staunch pro-lifer answered: Marriage and Fatherhood.
“I’m a command-and-control kind of guy. I’m 6 foot, 2 inches, big broad football kind
of guy. I don’t really have a lot of fears. I understand what the Church teaches.
I talk about It unabashedly sometimes to my detriment -- people get offended
... But being a better spouse and father is really my biggest challenge and the
thing that's changed me the most,” Lillis said, admitting that he was still
growing in that vocation.
“Trying to understand another human being in
the way that spouses have to, that has been the biggest dimension in my walk
with the Lord,” John humbly admitted.
*Bowing to pro-life
pressure, Starbucks apparently decided to hide their involvement with Planned
Parenthood. This link of the Family Council, “Starbucks, and OtherCompanies, in Partnership with Planned Parenthood” sports a link to a list of
corporate donors to America’s largest abortion provider, but when you click the
link that says, “Click here to see the list,” Planned Parenthood has removed
the list.
Life Site News in this
article, “Starbucks, American Express Still Support Planned Parenthood,” also
sports an Error 404 message when you try to view the list of corporate donors
to Planned Parenthood.
Also please click on the comments below for further listings of companies supporting same sex "marriage" and abortion.
Apple computer (I'm typing this on one), Southwest Airlines, Microsoft... The list of companies that make indispensable products and that support abortion, gay marriage, etc. is endless. We can't escape entanglement. Starbucks we can boycott, yes, but what we really need to do is change the culture, and we begin first with our own conversion, and then by prayer and work.
ReplyDeleteBrilliant post. It is the small things done with great love (Ste. Therese). Sp it is with this little start-up Gospel of Life coffee company!
ReplyDeleteDearest PJ,
ReplyDeleteIt’s true that Apple, Facebook, Twitter, Microsoft, Amazon, AT&T, American Express, Hewlett-Packard Co, Estee Lauder et al filed a friend-of-the-court brief supporting same sex marriage with the U.S. Supreme Court. But here’s how you discern the matter.
IS THERE AN ALTERNATIVE? In the case of Apple and Microsoft, there is no alternative. They are the only major computer manufacturers. We are using these instruments to write to one another right now. But in the case of printers, Lawrence and I have -- at great sacrifice -- refused to pay one dime for an HP. I have drooled looking at HP printers for years, but we use Epson. Epson is not among the 379 companies that supported same sex marriage.
Not only that, Lawrence is an electrical engineer, and professionally, he will not design anything with a Hewlett-Packard manufactured item in it. He always finds alternatives. HP’s stance has cost it money.
There are numerous alternatives to Facebook & Twitter, but these social media are still an important means of getting the pro-life, pro-family, pro-marriage message across.
In the early 1990s, a kindly priest told us that Our Lady said this: “Satan is on the Internet. I want to be there too.” For that reason, and that reason alone, my family and I purchased a computer and started using email. We thought it was a strange thing to do, but if Our Blessed Mother wanted to be on the Internet, we would put her there. That’s all there is to it. And surely Our Lady wants to be on Twitter and Facebook as well despite its compromised stance on same sex “marriage,” which Our Lady, of course, opposes, as does her Son.
But with respect to Starbucks, they have not only tried to destroy the Defense of Marriage Act, supported same sex marriage before the Supreme Court, but they also have supported the largest abortion provider in the United States, Planned Parenthood. AT&T has done the same thing. T-Mobile is not on the list of companies that supported same sex "marriage."
In 2013, Starbucks CEO Howard Schultz publicly told one of his shareholders to take a hike when he complained that the company’s support for same sex “marriage” was eroding its bottom line. He told him he could invest his money somewhere else.
Like John Lillis said, perhaps many companies are compromised, but you don’t have to dig deep to find out what is wrong with Starbucks. Not only that, but I just finished a three-year fast from all coffee because I didn’t know of an alternative. Now I do – Lifeboat Coffee.
In World War II, there were shortages of things, and the American people made sacrifices because they believed the war effort demanded it. My mother used to drink her coffee with cream and sugar, but when I knew her (after 1953) she drank it black because she had gotten in the habit during World War II of doing without sugar.
If that American generation can fast for a just American war, surely our generation can fast in support of human life and the preservation of marriage.
If there are alternatives, I am going to use them.
Especially now, should we continue our habit of boycotting who we know is wrong because there’s evidence that Starbucks is trying to hide its support for Planned Parenthood. That’s a form of victory! Rejoice.
God bless you. Susan
All valid points, and I appreciate learning about Lifeboat coffee. If I just want to buy a bag of coffee beans, then that's a great alternative. But if I want a cup of coffee when traveling, a clean restroom, a safe venue to conduct business away from the office, then I don't think it's easy to point to a real alternative to Starbucks. (They own Peets Coffee now, and others.) Here's a suggestion for folks like me who are not ready to boycott Starbucks absolutely. If I get a craving for "Bugs"--that's our nickname for it--while I'm just running around town doing errands, then I can often summon the will power to turn to my iPhone instead and enter an x on my "Bugs" list in the Notes app. After I get so many x's, I figure out how much I've saved by not buying my favorite drink and donate it to a pro-life charity. This exercises my feeble virtue of temperance and diverts at least some of Starbucks' potential $$ to pro-life work. What do you think?
DeleteI forgot to mention that McDonald's is not an alternative for me because they do not offer decaf coffee.
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ReplyDeleteThis document lists the 379 companies, the Amici Curiae, who support same sex "marriage."
https://www.morganlewis.com/documents/supportingdocs/MLB_Employers_Amicus_Brief-Obergefell-v-Hodges.pdf
Here's a partial list of corporate donors to Planned Parenthood from last year: http://www.dcclothesline.com/2014/04/20/corporate-donors-planned-parenthood-abortion-mill/
Planned Parenthood of Washington D.C. currently lists: "A partial list of companies with Corporate Matching Gift Programs includes: AT&T, Alcoa, American Express, Avon Products, Black & Decker, Circuit City, Citibank, Clorox, Coca-Cola, Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, Fidelity Investments, Ford Motor Company, Gannett, James River Corporation, Merck & Company, Microsoft Corporation, Motorola, Phillip Morris, T. Rowe Price, Prudential Insurance, Safeco Corporation, Sun Microsystems, Sunoco, Vanguard Group, Verizon, Washington Post Company, White & Case, Xerox Corporation
PJ, dear, you have a very sensitive conscience. You can do what you wish. If you need to drink a latte, let's pray that John LIllis is able to put his coffee on the road as he discusses in this piece. Otherwise, yes, McDonald's is not an option for me either for coffee because it has sugar. But in Colorado there are little coffee chains like Dazbog started by two immigrants of the Soviet Union and Ink! They are like Starbucks, but not Starbucks. Nordstrom has a latte place like Starbucks. Look around. There is probably a Starbucks substitute nearby where you are going. It was an old reflexive habit of mine to seek out the nearest green lady (Starbucks), but once I firmly put her out of my life, God showed me other possibilities. And that's good for unborn people because of customers like me, Starbucks has stopped advertising its connection to Planned Parenthood -- the largest abortion provider in the United States, and clearly on the side of evil. But feel free to run into their bathrooms. I do. I just don't buy anything. God bless you. Susan
ReplyDeletePJ, I was thinking later. Fasting is not easy and I don't do it well at all.But I was taught correctly if you have a choice between two goods, choose the one that will cause you to die to yourself the most. The hard choice. God bless you. Susan
ReplyDeleteBought Lifeboat Coffee for Easter gifts this year!! So happy to have a great company to give my money to!!!
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